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华大基因待遇【视频】- 我祝你不幸并痛苦 毕业致辞-TTT云课堂

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【视频】| 我祝你不幸并痛苦 毕业致辞-TTT云课堂

美国前最高法院首席大法官
约翰·罗伯茨的毒鸡汤演讲
可谓是演讲界的一股清流
这篇演讲是在法官儿子的毕业典礼上演说的

为什么如此轰动呢
因为他一反常规的鸡汤演讲风格
他不是告诉学生们
他们是天之骄子
肩负改变世界的使命
并预祝他们前途光明
这位法官选择说
“我祝你们不幸并痛苦”
那么他都说了些什么呢野良神第二季 ?
7分钟的视频不长,你可以看完…

演讲全文
Now the commencement speakers will typically also wish you good luck and extend good wishes to you. I will not do that, and I’ll tell you why.
现在,毕业典礼的演讲嘉宾照例要祝你们好运并送上祝福了。我不会这样做,让我来告诉你为什么。
From time to time in the years to come红鼻剪刀 , I hope you will be treated unfairly, so that you will come to know the value of justice.
我希望在未来岁月中,你能时不时地遭遇不公,唯有如此,你才能懂得公正的价值。
I hope that you will suffer betrayal because that will teach you the importance of loyalty.
我希望你尝到背叛的滋味,这样你才能领悟到忠诚之重要。
Sorry to say, but I hope you will be lonely from time to time so that you don’t take friends for granted.
抱歉,我还希望你们时常感到孤独,唯有如此微山湖简谱 ,你才不会视朋友为理所当然。
I wish you bad luck, again, from time to time so that you will be conscious of the role of chance in life and understand that your success is not completely deserved and that the failure of others is not completely deserved either.
我祝你们偶尔运气不佳,这样你才会意识到机遇在人生中扮演的角色,从而明白你的成功并非天经地义,而他人的失败也不是命中注定。
And when you lose, as you will from time to time, I hope every now and then, your opponent will gloat over your failure. It is a way for you to understand the importance of sportsmanship.
当你偶尔失败时,我愿你的对手时不时地会幸灾乐祸。这样你才能懂得互相尊重的竞技精神的重要。
I hope you’ll be ignored so you know the importance of listening to others, and I hope you will have just enough pain to learn compassion.
我希望你常被人无视,唯有如此,你才能懂得倾听他人有多重要。也祝你感受切肤之痛,从而学会同情。
Whether I wish these things or not, they’re going to happen. And whether you benefit from them or not will depend upon your ability to see the message in your misfortunes.
无论我祝愿与否文安吧 ,这些事都会发生林挺生。而你能否从中获益,则取决于你能否参透这些苦难中传递的信息。
Now commencement speakers are also expected to give some advice. They give grand advice, and they give some useful tips. The most common grand advice they give is for youto be yourself.It is an odd piece of advice to give people dressed identically, but you should — you should be yourself. But you should understand what that means.
毕业典礼演讲嘉宾还要给出一些忠告。他们会说一些宏大的建议或实用的技巧。而他们最常说的宏大建议就是,做自己。给一群穿着整齐划一的人提出这样的建议有点奇怪,不过你们确实应该做自己。但你们要明白这句话的真正含义。
Unless you are perfect, it does not mean don’t make any changes.In a certain sense, you should not be yourself. You should try to become something better. People say ‘be yourself’ because they want you to resist the impulse to conform to what others want you to be. But you can’t be yourself if you don't learn who are, and you can’t learn who you are unless you think about it.
除非你完美无瑕,那么这句话绝不意味着不去改变自己。从某种意义上来说,你不应当做自己。你应当努力成为更好的人。人们说“做自己”,因为他们希望你不要屈服于他人的意愿随波逐流。但如果你自己都不了解自己,那么你就无法“做自己”,而你只有思考了,才能清楚自己想成为怎样的人。
The Greek philosopher Socrates said,‘The unexamined life is not worth living.’And while ‘just do it’ might be a good motto for some things, it’s not a good motto when it’s trying to figure out how to live your life that is before you. And one important clue to living a good life is to not to try to live the good life. The best way to lose the values that are central to who you are is frankly not to think about them at all.
古希腊哲学家苏格拉底曾说过,“未经自省的人生没有意义”。对某些事来说,“放胆去做”也许是句金玉良言,但当你在思考未来人生将如何度过时,这却不是一句好的格言。不要为了所谓的“好生活”而生活陈燕琳。如果你从来不思索生活的意义,那你很容易就会迷失自我。
So that’s the deep advice. Now some tips as you get ready to go to your new school. Other the last couple of years, I have gotten to know many of you young men pretty well虐阳吧, and I know you are good guys.But you are also privileged young men.And if you weren’t privileged when you came here, you are privileged now because you have been here.My advice is: Don’t act like it.
以上是一些深刻的忠告。接下来的建议是给即将步入新学校的你们。过去几年里,我已经熟识你们当中很多年轻人,也知道你们都是好青年。但你们也是享有特权的一群年轻人。即使初来此地之时你们并不优人一等圣魔光石 ,但成为这里的一员炸肉的做法 ,已经使你们比他人享有更多优势。我的建议是,不要表现得高人一等。
When you get to your new school, walk up and introduce yourself to the person who is raking the leaves, shoveling the snow or emptying the trash. Learn their name and call them by their name during your time at the school. Another piece of advice: When you pass by people you don’t recognize on the walks, smile, look them in the eye and say hello. The worst thing that will happen is that you will become known as the young man who smiles and says hello, and that is not a bad thing to start with.You’ve been at a school with just boys. Most of you will be going to a school with girls. I have no advice for you.
当你来到新学校时,见到那些扫落叶、铲雪、倒垃圾的人,便走上前自我介绍,同时记住他们名字。在学校的日子里,记得称呼他们的名字。另外一条建议是:当你在路上遇见陌生人时无敌当家 ,看着他们眼睛并微笑致意。这样做最糟糕的结果不过是,人们会记住你这个爱笑爱打招呼的年轻人,这是个不错的开头。你们之前在的学校里只有男孩,现在大多数人都将进入有女生的学徐紫云 校。关于这件事,我没有建议。
The last bit of advice I’ll give you is very simple, but I think it could make a big difference in your life. Once a week, you should write a note to someone. Not an email. A note on a piece of paper. It will take you exactly 10 minutes. Talk to an adult, let them tell you what a stamp is. You can put the stamp on the envelope. Again, 10 minutes, once a week.
最后一条建议十分简单,但是却会对你的人生产生很大的影响:每周给一些人写一封信。不是电子邮件,而是写在一张纸上华大基因待遇,只要花你10分钟。问一位长辈,让他告诉你邮票是什么,然后你就可以给信封贴邮票了。再说一遍,一周只花10分钟哦。
I will help you, right now. I will dictate to you the first note you should write. It will say, ‘Dear [fill in the name of a teacher at Cardigan Mountain School].’ Say: ‘I have started at this new school. We are reading [blank] in English. Football or soccer practice is hard, but I’m enjoying it. Thank you for teaching me.’
我现在就可以教你怎样做。我告诉你第一张便条写什么。称呼是“亲爱的卡迪根山中学某老师”,然后写“我们已经开始了新学期,最近正在学某本书,足球对我来说很困难,但我很喜欢。谢谢您的教诲。”
Put it in an envelope, put a stamp on it and send it. It will mean a great deal to people who — for reasons most of us cannot contemplate — have dedicated themselves to teaching middle school boys. As I said, that will take you exactly 10 minutes a week. By the end of the school year, you will have sent notes to 40 people. Forty people will feel a little more special because you did, and they will think you are very special because of what you did. No one else is going to carry that dividend during your time at school.
然后把你的便条装进信封,贴好邮票后寄出。这对那些把生命奉献给教育初中小男孩的中学老师们来讲意义非凡哥萨克之歌 。如我所说,每周只需要花十分钟。当学年结束时,你差不多给40位老师寄出过便条。这40位老师会因为你做的这件事而感到自己很特殊,同时也会对你另眼相看。在学校的时光里,这是你一人独享的一份红利。
Enough advice. I would like to end by reading some important lyrics. I cited the Greek philosopher Socrates earlier. These lyrics are from the great American philosopher, Bob Dylan. They’re almost 50 years old. He wrote them for his son, Jesse, who he was missing while he was on tour. It lists the hopes that a parent might have for a son and for a daughter. They’re also good goals for a son and a daughter. The wishes are beautiful, they’re timeless. They’re universal.
忠告说得够多了。下面我将引用一段著名的歌词结束我的致辞。刚才,我引用了希腊哲人苏格拉底的名言,而这些歌词,则来自伟大的美国哲人鲍勃·迪伦。这些歌词已有50年历史,是迪伦巡回演出期间南皮天气预报,思子心切,写给儿子杰西的。歌词表达了家长对子女的美好期盼。同时也可作为子女们的奋斗目标。这些期盼是美好的、永恒的,也是普世的。
They’re good and true, except for one: It is the wish that gives the song its title and its refrain. That wish is a parent’s lament. It’s not a good wish.
整体来说都很好,除了有一条,即歌名和副歌里表达的愿望。那只能算是家长们的扼腕叹息,算不得美好的愿望。
节选了最有争议的几句话:
在未来的很多年中
我希望你被不公正地对待过
唯有如此
你才真正懂得公正的价值
我希望你遭受背叛
唯有如此
你才领悟到忠诚之重要
罗伯茨的言论,对于东方人来说,确实比较新鲜。
中国人虽然有叔向贺贫的传统,但是还是不能接受“祝”别人倒霉。
孟子虽然说“天降大任于斯人也,必先苦其心志,劳其筋骨张英明谈恋爱,饿其体肤,空乏其身,行拂乱其所为。”但如果在自己儿子毕业典礼上,估计也不会这么讲。
中学时候,老师讲过,要想高考作文得高分,有一个冒险的办法,故做惊人之语,但是能用锦心绣口,生花妙笔,把道理再圆回来。
最典型的例子血胎换骨,就是传说中唐伯虎的祝寿诗:
这个婆娘不是人,九天仙女下凡尘。
儿孙个个都是贼,偷来蟠桃献至尊。
分享一个类似“祝你不幸”的小故事:
一个坐轮椅的富翁,在儿子成年的时候阿里代伊 ,把他叫上楼顶。对他说: 儿子,今天我给你上人生最重要的一课。 儿子欢欢喜喜地听着。
富翁说:你现在闭上眼睛,向后退十步。 儿子照做了。
富翁说:你再向后退十步。
儿子说:爸爸,不能再退了,再退就掉下去了。
富翁说:放心吧,我帮你看着呢?爸爸能骗你吗? 儿子向后退去,没到十步,就掉下了楼顶。
在医院里,儿子浑身缠满石膏,睁开眼看见自己的父亲。
他生气地扭过脸去。尹惠熙
这时候富翁语重心长地说: 儿子,这就是我给你上的生命中最重要的一课。永远,永远不要相信任何人。包括你的父亲。
你爷爷当年就是这么给我上的课呀。
我祝你不幸并痛苦
也许是另一种用心良苦
你认同这种观点吗?
在孩子的毕业典礼上
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